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Monday, November 09, 2009

A One-Girl Reception Committee

 
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I expected to slip into the house quietly, grab a quick bite and then go up to catch a little football before bed.

It was a teaching night and I was getting home later than usual.  I quietly opened the door and got a surprise in the form of my 3-year-old girl.

It startled me at first.  I looked up and there she was standing there expectantly.

She appeared to be the only one in the house who was awake.  Of course, I was concerned thinking about all the trouble an unsupervised girl that age could get into downstairs.

“Hi Daddy!” she said happily.

“What are you doing here?” I demanded.  I instantly felt badly as I saw disappointment and hurt swell up in her face.

“I just wanted to see you when you got home Daddy,” she said softly. “I wanna peanut butter sandwich too.”

I swept her up in my arms and gave her a kiss.  My teaching days are long, often arduous 14-hour affairs, but I should never be too tired to accept a little girl’s love.

Besides, this girl has always been a night owl.  She doesn’t need much of an excuse to stay up late most nights since she doesn’t have school and can sleep in the next day.

We both had a late dinner together.  I couldn’t help but ask her why she wasn’t upstairs sleeping with her brother and her mother.

“Daddy, I couldn’t go to sleep without kissing you good night,” she said.

I felt like even more of a heel now.  What could I have done to deserve such unconditional love? We finished up and I took her upstairs.

My wife was stirring and she saw us come into the room. She raised herself up and looked at us sleepily.

“Look, I had a one-girl reception committee,” I told my wife.

She called my Baby Girl’s name out.  However, she was tired.  She had a long day too so I let her go back to sleep.

The next morning, my wife said she was a bit aggravated that she had crawled out of bed and gone downstairs.  However, she's always been a night owl and we'll have to be mindful of that in the future.

We cuddled up together on the couch and watched a little Monday Night Football.  As she lay in arms finally giving way to sleep, I thought about what a miracle she was and how we were so blessed to have her.  I thought once again of my three-day trek to get home from Iraq in time for her birth, and how holding her that first time made it worth all the effort and aggravation.

I had papers to grade and there were dishes to be done downstairs.  However, I took a few moments just to relish this time.  I know it won’t always be this way, but I’ll always have this memory.

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Awww....how precious!!!
Posted 11/9/2009 4:12 PM by pinkmojomama Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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What a good daddy you are! My newborn Isabella is on her daddy's 3rd shif schedule.  She's up in the middle of the night and will sleep all day.  This blog really made me smile inside and out.  Thanks for sharing :)
Posted 11/9/2009 10:02 PM by BEAUTIFULCINNAMONQUEEN Xanga True Member - reply

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Every daughter should be so loved.  


Posted 11/10/2009 7:17 AM by roses46 - reply

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Awww, so sweet.
Posted 11/11/2009 9:25 PM by TiRocKiinPiinK - reply

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Awe your daughter sounds happy and full of love :) Your an awesome dad~
Posted 11/20/2009 11:05 AM by oo0beautiful0oo - reply

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Aw, this was a sweet story. Your daughter is so cute. You both are such good parents. I guess we both haven't wrote on Xanga in quite some time. Both our last entries were on November 9th :p I guess we are both having too much fun to write.
Posted 11/22/2009 6:26 AM by RunAwayCOW - reply

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Like I've said before, my daughters are 17 and 16. My time with them is precious, but I don't get those "Daddy" moments anymore like what you described here. Good that you are cherishing the time because it does go away.
Posted 11/24/2009 12:42 PM by flatpick46 Xanga True Member - reply


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